Mother of six, my second child, Mary, was born with Down Syndrome in 1984. As each of our children has grown, then left home, Mary began withdrawing and regressing to the point where she would do little for herself and refused to communicate with any of us. We have recently discovered NACD (National Academy for Child Development) and with the help of some incredible people, we have begun a new, exciting, yet sometimes intimidating adventure. This is our diary of this new beginning for Mary.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Bowling for Smiles
Both of Mary's sister left for Girls camp yesterday. Usually that makes Mary sad - she misses them. But...
Yesterday was a good day with Mary. And, to make it even better, she was invited to Kristen's birthday party at the Bowling alley.
Years ago, when Mary was in High School, she loved to bowl. Loved it. LOVED, LOVED, LOVED it. Did I say she loved it? It completely delighted her, plus, she was pretty darn good at it. Well, bowling is one of those things that Mary no longer wanted to do during her regression. SO..., I wasn't too sure if she'd like this bowling party thing.
I worried for nothing. From the time we got there and got her shoes on, to the time she went to bed last night, it was BIG smiles. So happy. Giggling. She still loves bowling, obviously. Plus, she loves her friends. Kristen and Cindy are so good to her. They watch out for her - maybe because they are older - they feel protective of her.
I am grateful for good friends for Mary. I am grateful for bowling and all the other things that Mary loves again. Looks like we'll be doing this for Family night more often in the future!
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